Free shidduch resume builder & private shidduch organizer
To build. To lay the first stone of a shared future.
Organize suggestions, build a shidduch resume, log dates, and track shadchan follow-ups — all in one private place. A calm, private space for the shidduch process — clarity without the overwhelm.
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Designed for the real shidduch process
Keep track of names, resumes, reflections, and next steps organized in one place — without noise, guesswork, or scattered messages.
Keep every suggestion, reference, and note in one place
Track names, who suggested them, relevant details, and what still needs follow-up — without relying on memory, screenshots, or WhatsApp threads.
Build and share your resume with clarity
Create a polished shidduch resume, keep it updated, and share it when needed — without losing control over your information.
Stay on top of follow-up
Keep track of statuses, next steps, and conversations with shadchanim so nothing important slips through the cracks.
Reflect while it's fresh
Guided post-date prompts keep facts and feelings organized. After three dates, the Clarity Check helps you see what's clear — and what is not yet.
From first suggestion to last date
A quiet structure that carries you through the process — one deliberate step at a time.
Track
Organize every suggestion as it comes in. No more searching through old WhatsApp threads.
Reflect
Write down your thoughts after each date while they're fresh. Stay clear on what matters.
Follow up
Actionable tasks help you move forward with confidence and respect for everyone involved.
Private by default. Shared by choice.
Some tools add more noise. Livnot is meant to reduce it — with a calm interface, simple workflows, and privacy at the center.
- No public-facing profile You will never appear in any public database.
- You control what gets shared Share your resume by secure link — and revoke it anytime.
- Simple, focused structure
- Reflections stay private — always Date notes and Clarity Checks are never part of anything shared.
Asked, answered.
What exactly is Livnot, and how is it different from a dating app?
Livnot is a private journal and organizer for the shidduch process. It is explicitly not a dating app, public matchmaking platform, or social network. There are no public-facing profiles, no swiping mechanics, and no gamification features like "compatibility scoring". Instead, it acts as your personal, highly discreet workspace to privately track suggestions, build your shidduch resume, log date reflections, and manage follow-ups with shadchanim. The goal is to reduce the chaos and emotional overload of the process by keeping everything in one calm, central place.
Who is Livnot built for?
Livnot is built for singles navigating the shidduch process and for parents managing it on behalf of their children. Whether you are tracking suggestions yourself or coordinating shadchan follow-ups for your son or daughter, the app keeps everything organized in one private place. While it was initially conceptualized with the structured workflow of Yeshivish and Bais Yaakov-style communities in mind, it is highly effective for anyone experiencing the operational overload of juggling multiple suggestions.
How does Livnot protect my privacy and sensitive data?
Confidentiality is fundamental to Livnot. Your private notes, reflections after meetings, and suggestion tracking remain entirely private by default. The application uses strict data security protocols so that each user can only access their own information. You will never be visible in any public database, and none of your data is shared — even indirectly.
How much does Livnot cost? Is there a subscription?
Livnot offers a generous free tier with no monthly fees and no auto-renewal. The free plan includes resume creation, sharing and PDF export, tracking for up to 2 active suggestions, 2 date notes per suggestion, and 3 shadchan contacts. When you need more capacity, you can unlock Full Access for 12 months; the current price is shown at checkout. Full Access unlocks unlimited suggestions, unlimited date notes, unlimited shadchan contacts, full history and automatic details extraction. When your 12 months end, you can extend at your own pace — nothing is charged automatically.
Does Livnot use AI? Will it give me dating or halachic advice?
No. While Livnot includes a library of practical guidance (like how to prepare for a first date or follow-up etiquette), it does not act as a posek (halachic authority), therapist, or matchmaker. Livnot is a practical operational tool designed to solve real workflow pain and reduce emotional overload, leaving the advice to your trusted real-world mentors. However, the app does utilize AI strictly as a background operational utility to save you time. For example, when you upload a PDF resume of a new suggestion, Livnot uses an AI extraction tool to automatically pull structured candidate information to populate your tracker, saving you from manual data entry.
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Free to begin — calm by design.
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